That's an understatement!
Why do men always think it's better to say what we, women, are supposed to be willing to hear? They shouldn't try so hard to say things that are supposed to please us, because they always miss their target.
Women just want to hear the truth...even if it hurts, the truth is always better than lies. The truth will hurt us really bad for a moment; then we'll get over it...Lies keep us in a miserable state for longer. It's like a bandage ... If it is removed slowly, it really hurts…but pull it hard and fast, and the pain will be intense but temporary.
But men are "sweet talkers". They can't help it, it's in their genes. They always presume that the women love to be fooled with honey-coated words. Bur believe me, we don't! We are stronger than we seem, and we can take it.
So please, stop telling us that you care when you don’t. We will believe you and stick around when all you want is for us to disappear… None of us will be happy. Just grow some balls and tell us that you’ve made a mistake, you’re human after all. And if we hate you for this, why would you care, right? Hate is better than misery!
Oh and then there’re some men who just won’t say anything… They’ll just keep us hanging there, hoping for God knows what. We’ll wait, and wait, but nothing… Until we’ll begin to beg you for something, anything that will prove to us that you care… But still nothing, then we’ll plead more, and we’ll become annoying, but we’ve got to know! There, see? Nobody’s happy again!
So grow some balls and tell us you’re done with us. You don’t have to be mean and insensitive, there are ways to tell a woman you’re fed up and you’ve changed your mind. Then again, if we hate you after that, why would you care?
My point here is to let men know that they need to talk more and say what they’re actually thinking! I know that I’m fed up to wait for the truth.
SO GROW SOME BALLS AND TALK!