tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post769513784957045592..comments2022-11-09T00:35:58.131-08:00Comments on Mille Baisers: Men, grow some balls!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-3645031931465948702011-12-17T19:21:07.267-08:002011-12-17T19:21:07.267-08:00I couldnt agree with you more. Even if it hurts m...I couldnt agree with you more. Even if it hurts me, be honest with me. It is cruel not to be, cause we build up hope and when it is finally revealed to be BS, it hurts more. I dont mind being told "hey I really am not that attracted to you, or interested in getting it on with you" straight up, no BS. To have someone "act" like they are interested in me and I find out they were Bullshitting me,that makes me feel insulted and hurt. Truth trumps "not wanting to hurt me". If I am going to be "cut" do it fast, slow is torture and painful. I would never "lead" anyone on and I expect the same. <br /><br />Ok, that is my tangent.LOL This was an awesome blog.Sherry Palmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738115973406344255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-21511242852776117412011-12-17T08:06:24.410-08:002011-12-17T08:06:24.410-08:00Men have fragile egos. They don't want to lay ...Men have fragile egos. They don't want to lay their cards out on the table. They may actually care but can't express it because they fear you hurting them. It's crazy, they want to tell you they love you, they want to hold you and keep you with them but they've been burned because in the past they've put it out there but not soon enough or with the wrong woman and they've been hurt. So they don't tell that they care and they hold out and hold out until the woman is pissed then they leave or go find someone else. It's crazy but it's the way it is.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11693545261437024671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-91716173328588743422011-12-17T07:00:47.536-08:002011-12-17T07:00:47.536-08:00I was brought up to tell the truth, and unfortunat...I was brought up to tell the truth, and unfortunately for me sometimes believed most other people were also. But your post points out this is not always so and maybe we should be more wary. A man once said to me I like to say what you want to hear. For God's sake WHY? You write an excellent article here, come on guys, we're not so weak we can't take the truth. However harsh. We don't need wrapping in cotton wool. And we want to know your true feelings. <br />Well done Jade. This is an excellent point to make.Naomi Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16693171140434692340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-16640348212156627772011-12-17T06:59:50.978-08:002011-12-17T06:59:50.978-08:00I believe that both genders should be honest. The...I believe that both genders should be honest. The truth can hurt, but lies hurt worse in the long run.ERPnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-57582388563207187032011-12-17T06:44:03.112-08:002011-12-17T06:44:03.112-08:00Well said Jade - couldn't agree more.Well said Jade - couldn't agree more.Lisa Worrallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07285297311686194285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-87089049813656460912011-12-17T06:39:52.785-08:002011-12-17T06:39:52.785-08:00Sometimes, believe it or not, a Man just doesn'...Sometimes, believe it or not, a Man just doesn't know what to say when he doesn't want to hurt or offend a woman he has feelings for. <br /><br />I don't know if I agree with the part that Men are born sweet talkers, that it's in our gene. The truth of the matter is that society has taught men that we have to chase after women, woe them, court them and bend over backwards to please them in order to "win" their love. In nature, the males of certain species have to fight until the death to "win" the available females. <br /><br />I'm not trying to condone lying or being deceitful, but it's not always so black and white. To be honest, telling the truth is easier when a Man does not care. Maybe, just maybe, if he's reluctant to blurt out the ugly truth - it's because he does care.Benjamin T. Russellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12804675835177034017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-48801097652779830372011-12-15T15:29:05.247-08:002011-12-15T15:29:05.247-08:00The one's that don't talk are hoping they ...The one's that don't talk are hoping they can out wait us, and we will give up and move on without them having to say anything.Aimeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12981191556488739392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5585353960979039006.post-86457554062996158412011-12-15T15:16:39.454-08:002011-12-15T15:16:39.454-08:00Truth is always better...I've learned that thr...Truth is always better...I've learned that through my friends - because the ones that tell the truth are friends. :)Havanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06116528705614786647noreply@blogger.com